Friday, January 25, 2013

Vacation Countdown

It is finally here - the last day of work and the beginning of the a much needed vacation. I am a little ticked off because my mother had found a picture of me when I was in my 20's below and a "friend" made the comment about how much weight I have gained and how thin my hair is now, and how they used to think I was pretty but not anymore. GRRRRRR



I know I shouldn't let it bother me and it only  makes me mad that I care, why I cannot shake this fragile ego I have no idea. I need to shake it off, it's my birthday and I don't want anything to ruin it. I am want some peace and quiet and I want to feel good about myself. I guess there were always be someone that has something negative to say about you. You know women are very mean to each other, I think we all should come together, of course, I believe this "friend" has always wanted Mr Man and that is why she is so critical of me. She compares herself to me all the time. She has been a source of many arguments between me and Mr Man. I think I am going to stop being polite and people that are not really my friends I am going to let them know I know but then, how does being a good christian play into that? Love thy neighbor <pouting> I will just pray on it. Hope you have a great weekend :)



4 comments:

  1. I have said it before. I think you are gorgeous. You look like someone I'd like to know personally and you have the best smile ever. As to the "friend" I consider people like that toxic people and I don't go around them. I don't think being a Christian means you have to put up with mean people. Just be cordial and look in a mirror. You shouldn't feel bad about your looks for any reason.

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  2. WHY would someone be so mean !? You really do not need people like that in your life - all i see in the picture is that you are still a beautiful woman.
    what a bitch - your "friend" is.

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    1. very true Lorena - I know now she is NOT my friend and you are correct - what a bitch :)

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  3. Thank you Judy - that is great advice :)

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